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18 Let Them Show You Who They Are
294 2025-05-28 《The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About》[CHAPTER 18] So, Let’s Start at the Beginning . . . How to Find Love The Purpose of Dating Is Not Just to Find “The One” The Early Days They Don’t Like You. Wake Up. [CHAPTE... -
7.8 通过继承进行设计
7.8 通过继承进行设计 7.8.1 纯继承与扩展 7.8.2 向下转换与运行期类型识别 7.8 通过继承进行设计 学习了多态性的知识后，由于多态性是如此“聪明”的一种工具，所以看起来似乎所有东西都应该继承。但假如过度使用继承技术，也会使自己的设计变得不必要地复杂起来。事实上，当我们以一个现成类为基础建立一个新类时，如首先选择继承，会使情况变得异常... -
17 How to Provide Support the Right Way
278 2025-05-28 《The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About》[CHAPTER 17] Stop Bailing Out Other Adults How to Create the Best Possible Environment for Healing [CHAPTER 17] [How to Provide Support the Right Way] Since there were so man... -
4 Let Them Stress You Out
276 2025-05-28 《The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About》[CHAPTER 4] You Control Your Next Move [CHAPTER 4] [Let Them Stress You Out] What about practicingLet Them andLet Me when it comes to something or someone that triggers your s... -
6 How to Love Difficult People
270 2025-05-28 《The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About》[CHAPTER 6] Frame of Reference [CHAPTER 6] [How to Love Difficult People] In my opinion, it’s easier to use the Let Them Theory with strangers, co-workers, and even friends, b... -
16 The More You Rescue, The More They Sink
265 2025-05-28 《The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About》[CHAPTER 16] The Hard Truth About Healing Adults Heal When They Are Ready to Do the Hard Work “Let People Learn from Life.” Stop Avoiding the Problem [CHAPTER 16] [The More ... -
16.5 抽象的应用
16.5 抽象的应用 16.5 抽象的应用 走到这一步，接下来该考虑一下设计模式剩下的部分了——在哪里使用类？既然归类到垃圾箱的办法非常不雅且过于暴露，为什么不隔离那个过程，把它隐藏到一个类里呢？这就是著名的“如果必须做不雅的事情，至少应将其本地化到一个类里”规则。看起来就象下面这样： 现在，只要一种新类型的Trash 加入方法，对TrashSo... -
14 People Only Change When They Feel Like It
239 2025-05-28 《The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About》[CHAPTER 14] Wishing Someone Would Change Why Is Change So Hard? Truth #1: Adults only change when they feel like it. Truth #2: Human beings are wired to move toward what feels g... -
1.2 对象的接口
1.2 对象的接口 1.2 对象的接口 亚里士多德或许是认真研究“类型”概念的第一人，他曾谈及“鱼类和鸟类”的问题。在世界首例面向对象语言Simula-67中，第一次用到了这样的一个概念： 所有对象——尽管各有特色——都属于某一系列对象的一部分，这些对象具有通用的特征和行为。在Simula-67中，首次用到了class 这个关键字，它为程序引入了一个... -
15 Unlock the Power of Your Influence
202 2025-05-28 《The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About》[CHAPTER 15] Use Your Influence The ABC Loop 1. The Ground Rules: Using the ABC Loop 2. The Prep Work: Using the “5 Whys” Method THE ABC LOOP Step A: APOLOGIZE, then ASK open-e...
